Mike Lew Three Day Event
The Mental Health Association in Tompkins County, the Advocacy Center of Tompkins County and THRIVE (The Healing Resource Institute for Victim Empowerment) are excited to welcome Mike Lew, M.Ed., a renowned psychotherapist, author, and expert on healing from childhood sexual abuse. As the Co-Director of The Next Step Counseling and Training Center, Mike has decades of experience working with survivors, especially male survivors, helping them navigate the complexities of trauma recovery. His background in Psychological Anthropology and his early work with pioneers like Margaret Mead and Colin Turnbull, informs his holistic approach to healing, which integrates both individual and group therapy.
Mike is the author of the groundbreaking book, Victims No Longer, the first written specifically for men recovering from sexual child abuse. He has worked with thousands of survivors and professionals worldwide and has consulted with organizations such as the United Nations and National Institute of Mental Health. Mike’s work continues to inspire and support those on their healing journeys, and we are honored to have him share his expertise with our community.
At a Glance Schedule
| Date | Event | Audience | Cost |
|---|---|---|---|
| Thu · Nov 6, 6:00pm - 9:00pm | Community Talk & Discussion: Discussing the Issues Facing Male Survivors. | Survivors, families, allies, general public | Free |
| Fri · Nov 7, 9:00am – 4:00pm | Professional Training: Working with Male Survivors of Sexual Violence | Clinicians, counselors, service providers | $100: training only $125: training + CEUs |
| Sat · Nov 8, 9:00am – 5:00pm | Male Survivor Workshop: Working on Survivor Healing Exercises | Non offending male survivors of childhood sexual abuse | Free, registration required |
Day 1
Community Talk & Discussion
Thursday, Nov 6
6:00pm – 9:00pm
Join Mike Lew for an open, compassionate conversation about the unique challenges male survivors face and ways communities can foster healing and support.
Doors open at 6:00 PM for networking and access to local resource tables.
The main talk begins at 7:00 PM.
Location: Hilton Garden Inn Ithaca
Who should attend: Survivors, partners, family, friends, allies, and anyone seeking deeper understanding.
Cost: Free
Please let us know if you need special accommodations.
Day 2
Professional Training
Friday, Nov 7
9:00am – 4:00pm
Victims No Longer: Working with Male Survivors of Sexual Violence
This one-day training is designed for clinicians and others interested in understanding the experiences of male survivors of childhood sexual abuse.
Led by expert Mike Lew, the session will explore the specific issues and needs of male survivors, highlight helpful and unhelpful therapeutic approaches, and address key concerns faced by professionals working with this population.
After this training you will be able to:
Describe effects of male sexual victimization.
Recognize common barriers and needs of males in recovery.
Address the role of emotions in healing dissociation, addictions, compulsions and fixations.
Tailor approaches for male versus female survivors.
Sustain your own resilience while working with sexual trauma.
Location: Hilton Garden Inn, 130 E Seneca St, Ithaca, NY 14850.
Who should attend: Mental-health clinicians, medical providers, advocates, educators, and other professionals.
Cost & CEUs
$100 – training only
$125 – training + CEUs
Lunch and snacks included
Cancellation policy: Full refunds for cancellations received by Oct 31, 2025.
Please let us know if you need special accommodations including dietary restrictions.
Day 3
Male Survivor Workshop
Saturday, Nov 8
9:00am – 5:00pm
Working on Survivor Healing Exercises
In this transformative, day-long workshop, participants will explore a range of healing practices designed to empower and support recovery. Activities will include sharing personal stories, guided writing exercises, emotional expression, small group discussions, relaxation techniques, and creative exploration.
Location: Mental Health Association, 511 West Seneca St., Ithaca, NY 14850
Who should attend: Non-offending male survivors of childhood sexual abuse.
Cost: Free; registration is required. Lunch and snacks included.
Please let us know if you need special accommodations including dietary restrictions.
Questions?
Jenny Miller, COO
Mental Health Association in Tompkins County
📧 jmiller@mhaedu.org
📞 607-277-PEER (7337)